As I get older and begin new experiences in my life, the more I find myself saying things and behaving in ways my Father did.
As I reflect on the life of Edward Ray Goff on what would have been his 67th birthday, nearly 10 years after his passing, I begin to realize just how many things I learned over the years. Every thing from history, to mechanics and mannerisms to relying on my Faith in God..
I have been spending a lot of time with my girlfriend Tonya and her three boys, and I find myself pointing things out to them. Teaching them things from the history of certain places to how things work.
On trip to Las Vegas we stopped off at the Hoover Dam. While the boys (who are 13, 11 and 8) didn’t seem impressed at all, I continued pointing out how the whole thing worked. Telling them how the water turns the turbines, creating electricity, which powers places like Las Vegas and in Arizona.
Sometimes they are impressed with what I know, other times not so much.
Dad had a mechanics mind. He was the builder of The Living Christmas Tree at Magnolia Avenue Baptist Church. He knew how all the pieces fit together so that it not only looked great, but was structurally sound and safe for the kids to climb on and perform.
He didn’t have a college degree, but he had a lifetime of experiences in figuring how things worked, and loved to share his knowledge.
Whether it was changing the oil in our cars, or trips to places like Hoover Dam or the state capital, Dad loved to explain how things worked, and I always took notice.
He wasn’t very athletic, but he taught me how to play baseball, how to golf and how to bowl. If there were mechanics involved, he could break it down and show you how to do it.
But there were plenty of other things that he didn’t have to teach, because he showed you be example, especially when it came to his Faith.
One of my clearest memories is of him sitting at the kitchen table, eating his Cheerios, reading his Bible. That was how he started every day. In good times and bad, and there were plenty of both, he was never far from the Word.
No matter what was going on in his life he always showed the Love that his God had showed him. Never judging, never assuming, he just Loved on people.
As I carry out my days on this Earth, I try to live up to the bar that he set. I try to live up to his legacy, always showing people kindness and respect, whether they deserved it or not. Help people in need, and – above all else – Love one another.
In an ever threatening world, sometimes the simplest things seem the hardest to do, but they usually are the only things that will make a difference.
I miss you Dad, every day. Thank you for the example that you left behind. Happy Birthday!